Final Breakthrough

A year or so ago, I worked with an outstanding woman, navigating the challenge of extricating herself from a harsh and destructive relationship.

Her partner was a charismatic and powerfully attractive man with an overwhelming personality known as Narcissism.

By turns flamboyant, charming and loving, he would, without any warning or provocation, become verbally abusive, sexually inappropriate, critical and scathing, not just of his partner but her children.

Every argument and conflict would drive her to leave with a promise to never return to such abuse. Each time, for many months, after tears and promises to change she would return to a circle of abuse and ridicule. 

As a high achiever in life, including sport, the constant pressure of criticism and rages began to undermine her self-belief, eventually leading her to make the decision to free herself once and for all.

This was THE time, to begin the deep work for release from this magnetic but dangerous relationship.

Until a person decides that they REALLY want to move away from a damaging relationship there is no argument or reasoning that will achieve a change. Once there is a real and urgent need to make the change, then everything becomes possible. 

Working with Hypnosis, Reiki and NLP a gradual alternative vision of a future life was embedded during light trance, and using imagery and imagination, a final break appeared, with no effort or angst. It just happened.

This amazing woman is now on a new trajectory. 

Because she attracts high achieving men, she has gradually learned how to recognise the signs of controlling and inappropriate behaviour. Rather than just walking away from a good job, she now has the influence and mental resources to manage what is now a difficult boss while maintaining her personal integrity. 

A fantastic outcome.